Monday, September 23, 2019

Psychiatric Medication - Not a very fun game. . .

Psychiatric Medication - Not a very fun game. . .

I just came across this article:What’s it like to start on psychiatric medication? For me, it was akin to playing this board game, and wanted to share.  As someone who takes psychiatric medication and is on this journey, I thought this could be helpful for those who have not taken psychiatric medication to better understand.  Also, it is always nice to be reminded that you are not alone and I thought it was nice to be able to kind of laugh at the journey/“game,” especially since it usually just isn’t funny.

For those who have not had to play this game themselves, I just ask that you try to be supportive of those in your life that are playing.  I consider myself incredibly fortunate to:
  • Have friends and family that have always been supportive of me choosing to take psychiatric medication.
  • Have friends and family that have stuck with me through the ups and downs of this game.
  • To have a psychiatrist that I absolutely love and trust.

Even with the amazing support that I have, this game can be challenging. . for those of you who are playing, hang in there.

Sunday, September 15, 2019

A Couple Women’s Health Learnings

A  Couple Women’s Health Learnings

I recently learned two things about women’s health, which I should have known, but didn’t.  I had never heard either of these, so I just wanted to share.

Heart Attacks
I was recently listening to a podcast and they were discussing how women are often not taken seriously or believed when raising health issues, or at least are believed less than men.  It was then brought up that women have different heart attack signs/symptoms than men. What? I never knew that. If you had asked me I would have said the common chest pain, heartburn, pain in the left arm etc.  Well it turns out that the symptoms I am familiar with are more specific to men. Women have different heart attack symptoms which include those listed below. And while these aren’t all that different from men’s symptoms, there are some differences and women should be aware of the symptoms that women experience,especially because it seems that young women often don’t even realize when they are having a heart attack.

Younger Women Hesitate To Say They're Having A Heart Attack

A heart attack doesn't necessarily feel like a sudden painful episode that ends in collapse, she notes. And women are more likely than men to experience vague symptoms like nausea or pain down their arms.
"Women may experience a combination of things they don't always associate with a heart attack," Lichtman says. "Maybe we need to do a better job of explaining and describing to the public what a heart attack looks and feels like."

  • Neck, jaw, shoulder, upper back or abdominal discomfort
  • Shortness of breath
  • Pain in one or both arms
  • Nausea or vomiting
  • Sweating
  • Lightheadedness or dizziness
  • Unusual fatigue

Perimenopause
I had never heard of perimenopause until the women doing my tattoo mentioned it while she was working on my arm.  We didn’t actually talk about it, so I looked it up when I got home.

Many women in my life are experiencing perimenopause or will be in the next few years, so I just wanted to share in case there are others that are not familiar with it.  
Perimenopause means "around menopause" and refers to the time during which your body makes the natural transition to menopause, marking the end of the reproductive years.
Symptoms
  • Irregular periods. As ovulation becomes more unpredictable, the length of time between periods may be longer or shorter, your flow may be light to heavy, and you may skip some periods. If you have a persistent change of seven days or more in the length of your menstrual cycle, you may be in early perimenopause. If you have a space of 60 days or more between periods, you're likely in late perimenopause.
  • Hot flashes and sleep problems. Hot flashes are common during perimenopause. The intensity, length and frequency vary. Sleep problems are often due to hot flashes or night sweats, but sometimes sleep becomes unpredictable even without them.
  • Mood changes. Mood swings, irritability or increased risk of depression may happen during perimenopause. The cause of these symptoms may be sleep disruption associated with hot flashes. Mood changes may also be caused by factors not related to the hormonal changes of perimenopause.
  • Vaginal and bladder problems. When estrogen levels diminish, your vaginal tissues may lose lubrication and elasticity, making intercourse painful. Low estrogen may also leave you more vulnerable to urinary or vaginal infections. Loss of tissue tone may contribute to urinary incontinence.
  • Decreasing fertility. As ovulation becomes irregular, your ability to conceive decreases. However, as long as you're having periods, pregnancy is still possible. If you wish to avoid pregnancy, use birth control until you've had no periods for 12 months.
  • Changes in sexual function. During perimenopause, sexual arousal and desire may change. But if you had satisfactory sexual intimacy before menopause, this will likely continue through perimenopause and beyond.
  • Loss of bone. With declining estrogen levels, you start to lose bone more quickly than you replace it, increasing your risk of osteoporosis — a disease that causes fragile bones.
Changing cholesterol levels. Declining estrogen levels may lead to unfavorable changes in your blood cholesterol levels, including an increase in low-density lipoprotein (LDL) cholesterol — the "bad" cholesterol — which contributes to an increased risk of heart disease. At the same time, high-density lipoprotein (HDL) cholesterol — the "good" cholesterol — decreases in many women as they age, which also increases the risk of heart disease.

Tuesday, August 20, 2019

Happiness Is About Peace

Happiness Is About Peace

When I brush my teeth and wash my face in the morning I always listen to YouTube videos.  I had listed to a video from Stephan Colbert and the next video that played was his interview with Jada Pinkett Smith on The Colbert Report.  I don’t like/dislike her, but continued listening.  They discussed happiness and that Jada can say now that she is happy.  Stephen joked about her finally finding happiness at age 46. Jada said  "I really thought happiness had a lot to do with pleasure and I realize that happiness is about peace. I'm the most peaceful I've ever been in my life."  I liked this.  As most of you know, I deal with depression, pretty much all the time, and while I don’t think my definition of happiness is the issue (it is my MS brain not sending/using chemicals as it should,) but that being said, I think it will be helpful for me to rethink what happiness is.  I don’t have to be completely carefree, laughing, having the greatest time to be happy.

Tuesday, August 13, 2019

Pay Tickets and Do Good

Pay Tickets and Do Good

I just wanted to share this article - Indiana police department lets people pay for parking tickets with donations to local animal shelter.  I love this.  If you’re reading this you know that I love dogs and support dog/animal shelters.  How much better would it be paying a ticket if you were saving animals. . .or doing anything good?  

A lot of companies do good - whether it be donating money, volunteering etc. and it ultimately benefits them, with the press/publicity etc.  I’m okay with that. . .I say do good, help others and if it benefits you/the company, that is fine with me. The good is still being done.

Sunday, August 4, 2019

Let’s Play Away Our Problems

Let’s Play Away Our Problems

I recently saw this article An artist built seesaws into the U.S.-Mexico border and invited kids to play on them and just love this.  No, I don’t want to argue immigration/politics with anyone, but I thought this was a wonderful.  Using play to demonstrate that while we are so very different, we are also so very similar is brilliant.  And hey, sometimes you just want to play. It just makes me think, wouldn’t it be great if we could use play to solve all issues.

Monday, July 29, 2019

I’m not Sick, I’m Brave


I’m not Sick, I’m Brave

I recently read this People article:  Selma Blair Says Son Calling Her ‘Brave’ Through Her MS Journey Is One of Her ‘Proudest Moments.’ Selma Blair has MS and has been pretty open about her MS and how it has impacted her.  She even walked the red carpet at the Vanity Fair Oscars Party with her cane.

In the article she discussed her son and her MS and shared that he says:  ‘Mommy’s not sick. Mommy’s brave.’ I love that - so sweet and true.

Criticism, Overreacting

Criticism, Overreacting

I was listening to Pod Save America “MEGAN RAPINOE!!!” and as many of you are likely aware, she is a kick ass soccer player and  has been very vocal in her fight for women’s equality, particularly equal pay for women.  When asked if she would visit the White House if they won the World Cup she also famously said "I'm not going to the fucking White House."  Needless to say, on the podcast they discussed Megan’s “criticism/thoughts” on America, politics etc and I really liked her response. Ultimately she said that she didn’t understand why people get so angry at the criticism she has given - that through criticism we can learn, become aware of issues and ultimately improve.  Does anyone enjoy being criticized? No, but as I’ve gotten older I’ve really tried to embrace criticism and use the feedback to improve. And yes, I think there are ways that criticism can/should be given to be more effective - to be accepted/embraced rather than upsetting others. I don’t think we need to always handle people/situations with kid gloves every time we have criticism to provide though.  I do think we should be aware that how the criticism is given will likely impact how it is received, handled, etc.

When listening to Hysteria “The Creep Community” it was brought up how women often overreact - or at least are often accused of overreacting.  I like that it was said that it is okay to overreact and that “I would love us to all give each other permission to overreact.”  They were speaking to women speaking up when men do something that makes them uncomfortable (e.g. touches them,) but I really think this applies to all situations.  Yes, we all overreact, but also, I think much of the time we should just look at it as a woman reacting. Just because a woman doesn’t like something, doesn’t mean it is “over” reacting, she very likely just may be reacting and we should respect her feelings.